I joined eharmony the first wk of Sept 07 signing up for the year membership. Every day I would sign into my account with new matches..In 9 months I have had over 400 so-called matches and out of those only 2 I had any conversation with. I have never had any problems before getting a date I am an attractive women who keeps herself in shape. I decided the other day to put my profile on plentyoffish because its free I figured what do I have to lose. The first day my profile was up I had 10 men wanting to correspond. By the second day I had a date for Friday from one. And a Coffee engagement the next week with another. This tells me SOMETHING IS TERRIBLY WRONG WITH EHARMONY. I am currently trying to get a refund..Definetly would not recommend...would have given no stars but I had to give at least one to write review.