I've done eHarmony and now Match.com, and I have to say...go with eHarmony. Match.com is the worst...might as well just pick up a classified or craigslist and try your luck. I've been with them for three months now, i've sent out about 40 emails and countless winks...and not one single response! I've had 147 people view my site, but not one spent a second to email me.

I know what you're thinking, it's probably my profile. I thought that, too...so I've had several people look it over, and everyone says it looks good. Also, after you join (a basic plan is the same as eHarmony), if you want certain other feature, you're going to have to pay more. They also keep pushing Chemistry. Like I want to pay yet another $40/month for another dating service ON TOP of match.com.

With eHarmony, I went on several dates, discovered a lot about myself, and communicated with a bunch of girls. Go with eHarmony and save yourself the headache.