whale, i mean well, or do i mean whale? thanks, freud. you've done it again.

i've been plugging along on eharm for 3 months now. i've been on 1 date. she lied about her marital status, stating that she was divorced when she's really separated (hi vicki!). eharm won't let a separated woman join-cause she's still married! i got her bounced off.

there have been many matches-60+, but obviously their questionnaire doesn't ask about what type of woman you're looking for. it couldn't, possibly. or i don't recall. i'm very much into being outdoors and am committed to fitness. most of the women i've been matched with are overweight, very overweight or quite sedentary homebodies. and when you add god and or dog as things they can't live without, well...

i've had a few initiate conversation, then things get stuck after the initial questions or must have/can't stands. instead of closing me out, they simply don't answer and leave me hang.

now, i've lived all over the us and my expectations are low in cincinnati..it's far from the fit/cutie capital. my bad for thinking things would be different on eharm. in my 40s, i still look pretty good naked, and won't settle for someone who wouldn't.