I tried eHarmony a while back, and what really attracted me to them was that they seemed to emphasize marriage, as opposed to other sites that were just into casual dating. However, after I joined, I really didn't like the fact that I couldn't distinguish non-paying members from paying members. The whole experience was frustrating!

I saw an ad for a new website for paying members only. The website is MyFutureSpouse.com. They're focused on marriage just like eHarmony. I really liked what I saw and would like to join, however I don't know if they have lots of members yet, since they're new. If eHarmony would just allow paying members only, then I think most of the frustrations paying members experience will disappear.