I joined Eharmony in November and right away I was being contacted by 3 men. I was pretty excited, but the men seem very lonely and was professing their love. I just thought they wanted a girl friend for the holidays. Then the day after Christmas, I thought I met the man of my dreams. He started off a little like the previous men, but a little slower. After a while, I figured out he was one of the scammers that the internet warns you about from Africa. I was in contact with 10 men, 8 of those men where scammers. I did not send any money, but it is sad to think you are safe with eharmony and then I got this many scammers. They all start off confessing their love to you, then try to get you to quit eharmony and focus on them, then they try and get money from you. Money for a laptop that was fried by the electricity, money to pay off the workers, money for a plane ticket, or money for illness or medical treatment. I think eharmony should take the extra money and verify that the members are valid members.