I have tried meeting men in several different places. The movie theater, bar, various websites (myspace, yahoo, and match). The only place where I have been able to meet sincere men, interested in a real relationship was on eharmony.

I tried the website out twice. First in 2005 and then again last year, about a year ago exactly. I think the first time around I didn't stay on the site because I was being a bit superficial. I couldn't get over the fact that I couldn't choose someone's height range, or their color hair or their horoscope sign. I will now say that it was very immature of me.

When I signed on about a year ago, I decided to be really open-minded when it came to looks, and physical features. There was one person that really stood out to me based on the answers to their questions. I couldn't have written better ones. However, every picture of him he looked to be about 300 lbs and very pale but he also had the sweetest eyes (I usually dated tall dark thin guys). I took a chance, and I am so happy. Extremely happy in fact. We are planning our wedding for March of 2009 and I truly believe I found my soul mate.

For those that have complaints about the site, I suggest you broaden your scope, and keep an open mind. I always recieved many matches, at least 1 a day but over the three month period of both the times I tried the website I recieved several hundred matches. I never had a problem with the cancellation of my membership the first time around (2005).

If you are serious about being in a committed relationship then I think this is the best way to go about it.