I took a chance on E-Harmony after trying several others with mixed experiences. I was extremely optomistic after hearing all the adds and reading the testimonials.

EHarmony bases their system on the premis that everyone will develop their profile honestly. I only got to go on 3 dates with them in an entire year, and all of them were as far from an ideal match as possible.

I ended up going with an off-line service called, "It's Just Lunch".

With this service, I went on 20 dates. Some of them resulted in 2nd and 3rd dates. I eventually met my fiance' and could not be happier.

EHarmony is a grand hoax.