I have signed up for eharmony several times, always in response to heavy advertising and promotional offers from their sales team. I have been matched with literally hundreds of people over the course of my enrollment with them and have had actual dates with...two men. Yes, you read that correctly. One was 14 years older than me and the other was a lifelong bachelor in his 50's with dark "secrets" he intimated at but never chose to share. The first time I signed up, I initiated communication whenever I thought there was potential. Not once did I get a response. The second time I decided to let the men initiate and see if that would work better. It did; I got several weak responses. Still no dates. This last (and FINAL) try got more responses, mostly from men I was matched with who lived hundreds of miles away (despite my request to only be matched with men living near me), not one of whom I ever actually met. I am an attractive woman. I am also intelligent and successful. I signed up at a dating site because my lifestyle and career put me in contact with a lot of married men but very few eligible single men. But apparently there are no takers for me on eharmony.com. I keep getting seduced to sign up by my own coercions that say that since the founder is a psychologist and a Christian man, it must be a reputable site. My experience says that despite the sales pitches and attractive packaging, this product does not deliver. Kind of like Jim Baker I suppose. Or Ted Haggard.