i met my husband off of eharmony. i had a really great experience with it, and i had never tried a dating site before. my close friend bought me a membership since i was so stubborn, and i'm glad that i did. i'm sorry that so many people on this site have had a bad experience, but the nature of finding your soulmate isn't always easy. you have to kiss a lot of frogs to get to your prince no matter what...good luck everyone :)