I actually met several (about 7) men from lavalife, all in the relationship section. I had a long list of requirments, and actually ended up meeting a wonderful professional - things were excellent for many months but then his behaviour became somewhat erratic. Turns out he had been married before (he had told me that he had never been married), he had lied about his age, he had kept his dating profile online even though he had told me he'd taken it down (I never thought to look, as I trusted him) and - most shockingly - one night he showed up at my house, looking unkempt and frightened, and told me that he is a schizoprenic and had been diagnosed about 12 years ago.

All this after thinking I'd carefully screened who I met. I tried to help him but he was very paranoid and very scared of me (I guess that's common with paranoid schizophrenia.)

In the end I managed to contact his family and they stepped in to help.

I know it isn't lavalife's fault, but I'll never try online dating again.