One note to the person who wrote about getting put on hold for not having a picture, eHarmony does not allow you to see his picture if you do not have one yourself. Chances are he had a picture. Another note, why should I put time and energy into trying to get to know you when I have no idea whether I'll be physically attracted to you? And why won't you post your picture, what am I supposed to assume about that?

eHarmony seems to work best for those in the prime age demographics and highly populated locations. If you're having trouble with them charging you past your intended term, simply cancel the subscription halfway through or even as soon as you sign up. You will still get your month (or 3 or 6, whatever you paid for), and it will automatically stop when that time is up.