What was once a promising dating site has turned sour. I had used eharmony in the past, and had entered into relationships with great results. With in the last six months, I have watched this site fall. The points system is really just an overzealous Myers-Brigg personality test. The selection criteria I entered is not even factored in to the equation that links me with my matches. All I requested is a female with no children who lives around Philly. After a few weeks, I was suddenly getting "matches" with mothers in New York city - that's over 100 miles from where I live! The few matches I got, that were in my area, were clearly from women who had cancelled their account (eHarmnoy keeps inactive accounts actively matching), or were from women clearly just trying the free sample and had no interest in serious relationships. I strongly believe that the competition has got the better of eHarmony, and they are trying too hard to keep their share of the online dating dollar. Avoid this site, as they are clearly spending more money on advertising and gimmicks than on sticking to their mission of setting up couples.