I wouldn't give any stars. Actually, I would give negative stars. I was a member for 6 mths but after 5, I canceled early. I got tons of 'matches', but hardly any met my criteria. It seems they sent anyone who lived within 200 miles of me. Most were 10 yrs or more older than me, many shorter than me (I'm 5'9), & without photos. I didn't realize so many truck drivers were 'looking for love' on the internet, but eharmony somehow managed to send them all my way. The ones that had photos were hardly attractive. If I had met most of these men in a dating environment (I met no one btw), I would feel like I landed in the movie 'Deliverance'. Suffice to say, the men sent to me scared the bajeebus out of me. Eharmony is the biggest waste of money ever. If you want to join an online dating site, join one that ALLOWS YOU to at least view pics & decide first if you want them to be able to see you or initiate some sort of communication through a screening process that gives you some control. Eharmony gives you ZERO control. For that kind of money YOU should be able to decide if you think there is some sort of initial chemistry while figuring out those 29 levels of compatibility (which is complete nonsense btw). Remember, this is the internet, people can say whatever they want & be whomever they want. Your own intuition is better than this douchebag's system (the guy who founded shitharmony).