Sorry I didn't find this site sooner. Doesn't sound too promising and I recently joined. What I have noticed so far is that it seems the guys get to decide everything. One guy put me on hold because I refuse to put my picture anywhere on the internet but his isn't on there either which is apparently ok. So I closed him. I'm not looking for a husband (already had one of those) but I would like to have a relationship with a nice man. Thought this might be a nice way to meet someone. Time will tell