I gave eHarmony a shot. I learned a valuable lesson. Any business entity that holds back information until you pay them is not worth pursuing. Gosh, even a low life drug dealer gives you a taste before he tries to hook you. eHarmony holds out the goods (especially photos) until you subscribe and then you find out that the goods are not so good. If they had given me a sample, I wouldn't have wasted my money. Things were so bad that I turned the matching program off to avoid disappointing hopeful souls with rejection. I found it to be a place of sad sacks, gold diggers, and others unfortunate...the very prey many kinds of companies seek to fleece.