I have been reading reviews here for over an hour and I've come to several conclusions about eHarmony and online dating in general:

1. In ANY dating situation you take your chances and hope for the best.

2. eHarmony's profile questionnaire is simply another marketing gimmick used to pull people into the site and has little or no bearing on who you're compatible with, who your're matched with or whether or not the match will be successful.

3. Women in general are still reluctant to admit to and/or accept the fact that men in general are impressed primarily by a woman's attractiveness first and not her opinions on, say, the best place to go for pizza.

4. Shown a photo of a woman or meeting her in person, a man knows within 2 seconds whether he wants to have sex with her or not. If he does, then that will be his only focus no matter what he happens to say or do that makes it appear otherwise.

5. Whether your dating experiences with eHarmony were successful or not is irrelevant. Please, for the women especially, do not post your lengthy descriptions about what kind of date you had or whether he was all you thought he was. Nobody cares.

6. Again, for the women especially, if you're not happy with eHarmony then cancel your membership and DO NOT go back. It reminds me of the women that get beaten by their husands but stay in the relationship anyway hoping that someday "he will change."

7. Push in your keyboards, go outside and meet people face to face. There is no secret formula, scientific breakthrough or whatever happens to be the latest craze that will grant you the man or woman of your dreams. Love is work. If you can't muster the time or effort to search for it, then you're ot serious about finding it.