Let me just say that I am among the young, ambitious, educated, attractive men in this site that is completely and totally frustrated. I am SO relieved that others feel as hopeless as me after about 100 no-replies. I agree that this website is little more than fodder for women who need a pickmeup. Match.com has done nothing more than make me feel helpless in the world of dating and I had worse self esteem than before I resorted to the somewhat embarassing world of online dating. It also Very relieved that I'm not the only one.