This is the way it is: Women who turn to the internet for sex have a short attention for their sexual need, meaning that a few hours after they posted their profile they just don't want to meet anyone.

With adult friend finder it takes a few hours just to get your profile posted. In that time a woman usually grows uninterested or become scared to meet any guy. About the only women you can meet on their site are the ones who are Dating the Website in a sense, and there aren't too many of them and they're ultra picky.

I've found The Casual Encounters section of Craigslist is a far better place to go for sex than adult friend finder. In a sense, you can contact the women on craigslist while they're still hot. Also, the women who are hardcore adult friend finder gold members also check craigslist. I just don't se any reason to give Friend Finder my CC number when I can get more for free.