Linda from Arizona made a good suggestion...try Plenty of Fish.

May I make another...try Singlesnet?

It's way primitive, but it has a huge advantage over Yahoo and Match, and just any other pay site of which I'm aware: A non-paying member can initiate e-mail communication with any paying member and, logically, read e-mail from any paying member and respond with e-mail to any paying member's e-mail message.

Sure, the pool of paying members is rather small, but sign up, throw up a quick profile, and check it out. At least, unlike Match and Yahoo, you can conduct e-mail communication with a few people at absolutely no cost. And, if you like it, you can join and open two-way e-mail communication with anyone--not just paying members as in Match and Yahoo--whose profile is displayed on the site.

No, I'm not an employee of Singlesnet, just someone who's used the service and found it far better than the normal alternatives, Match and Yahoo.