I am a fairly attractive, slim woman in my late 30's with only one child who is 17. I have been on match as well as other sites for awhile and have met several nice people although never found that special person as of yet. I can understand when I date out of my league (I only went to highschool and have a low paying job) so of course the college educated professional man isn't going to want me no matter how much we have in common when it comes to religion, politics, values, hobbies. The same men that say a women shouldn't be concerned about how much a man makes are the same men that won't date me because I don't make a big amount of money. Are these men golddiggers? It sure sounds like it. I have recently be talking to a couple of guys who are more in my league. How ever they have rejected me too. O.K why am I not good enough for a 50+ man who is divorced with 7 children under 18? I am not really looking for a man with that much baggage but I wanted to be open minded and not judge as everyone is telling me to do. The guy is behind on bills, losing his home, has a herd of kids whom he can only see supervised (makes me wonder) and his has suddenly stopped writing and calling. He is bitter towards his exwife whom left him for a rich man , but doesn't she deserve better than him? The woman had 7 kids by the time she was 34 (yes she is MUCH younger than him) and still worked full time.

I am looking for a man with good morals but it seems there are two kinds of men on Match, Agnostic immoral men who are looking to use me or Moral religious men who are beyond fanatical and have no interests besides going to church and praying. I have given up on Match and all internet dating as the men are losers or have huge egos.