This is in repsonse to Kate in Vancouver. Hey sorry your so bitter that a men your age want younger women. One stupid action doesn't justify another stupid action, but I guess it is an eye for eye with you because you have been burned too.

I can keep this short and sweet, being "threatened" about keeping up with the times is not the issue. Saying that people have unrealistic expectations was simply stating the facts. No, I don't feel threatened because I have gotten dates with many attractive women, and I am very attractive. That is not the issue. There are some people, both men and women on this site that must be expecting, a human genetic experiment in perfect symmetry.

So you are right, times are changing, but no it is not too bad. I stay in shape, take care of my looks, and I want someone who does the same. But I don't expect someone to be perfect just take them out and see what they are like. And just because THIS country is creating ridiculous standards, doesn't mean there aren't plenty of people like me, who still live in the real world, and will find love the old fashioned way.

Good luck with keeping up with the 20 year olds.