This resonse is for Mr. Happy

Mr Happy said the following..... "This is EXACTLY what is wrong with America today. Television, women’s tabloids, and a false image of the perfect male………coupled with inflated egos and delusions of grandeur have fueled a search for the perfect male because the females are already so perfect, obviously. I guess no one on here has been in a real relationship. Because ego-maniacs don’t have long lasting relationships, because they can never be satisfied".

To him I say....welcome to the real world Mr. Happy. Try being a woman in her forties on any dating site (match.com included), trying to attract a man her age only to find out that countless middle aged men chase twenty something girls with skinny waists and belly tops.

Welcome to the present. How does it feel to have to live up to expectations and standards -- a world where women are looking for younger men, more fit men, more accomplished men, more attractive men, and more confident men. Haven't you men been chasing an illusion too for hundreds of years? You're calling women "Egomaniacs"? It's hilarious that you're complaining and feel threatend because it's "your turn" to MEASURE UP to illusions set up by the media? HA! What a joke! Welcome to the feelings of insecurity women have experienced for hundreds of years.

Media standards are beginning to affect both genders. This fact plays a huge role in the choices "both" men and women make on dating sites and in the real world. Times are a changin'! Too bad.