I am a 40 yo asian woman with a reasonably attractive face and fantastic body, cool personality (really- not wild, not mousy just a cool open minded wholesome normal girl), post-doc education and six figure income who has no kids or substance abuse problem. I would say match isn't that great but it's better than any of the other one I tried namely eharmony. And even on match, I don't get that many great men. 9/10 men who write either look awful, don't have as much education, have too many children or too much extra weight. I wonder is it b/c of my age, my ethnicity, or what. Now I have a free membership on chemistry.com which is a offshoot of match. it doesn't hurt.