The single worst experience I ever had with a man is with one I met on eharmony. I think eharmony allows abusive men to target vulnerable, trusting women and use their supposed Chrisitianity as a prop to gain a woman's trust. The format of the process on eharmony allows the abuser to know the right way to act by finding out in advance the person's "must haves" and "can't stands". A sociopath is able to use this information and appear to be the perfect match because they have been given a script in advance of what to do to con the woman. I gave it one star only because I couldn't figure out how to give it 0 stars. Having survived an abusive relationship from the eharmony guy I will never look at men in church the same way again and never recommend eHarmony to anyone. Be very careful of men who claim to be Christian. Look at their actions and not their words they say to get you to trust them and get you to sleep with them or give them money. Anyone can make themselves look good on paper or their website, however, looking at their history with women will be like looking into a crystal ball into your own future. If you use the internet to find a date then use the internet to research them. Abusive men used to be able to move to another city or state but with the internet their history is available world wide to anyone with a computer. Google is a woman's best friend in this new world. At a bare minimum check all men out very carefully by going to Google and simply typing in their first and last name and see what comes Don't ignore your intuition or their history no matter how sincere they may seem in their words or what they write in their profiles online.