Dear Women of Match.com

Who knows why I am on here anymore. The unrealistic expectations people have. This is a website for dreamers. Most of the women on here are ridiculous. I, along with many other males, have good jobs, are good looking, and probably all have characteristics that would appeal to women who are on the search for a good man, however, that is in the real world.

Women, who are the pure of heart, they search for honesty, for security, for a good income earner, someone who will provide for a family one day, someone who can give them adventure, someone to share laughs with, to make love with….wait………….…actually, women on match.com are just as shallow as men!

Looks, Looks, Looks. How many actually read the profile. How many take a look at the profile and then the photos and say, he is decent, he might be a catch. Zilch. No, that would be settling. You have settled for your last boyfriend/husband/lover and he just wasn’t perfect enough.

What I have discovered is most people on here are looking for their A) Matthew Mcconaughey (or insert any other “hunk”) or B) Their Court Jester to buy them a meal and entertain them for the night before they email the next guy for the next free meal and good laugh. I am sure the perfect man would be Mr. Mcconaughey, Bill Gates, and Dave Chappelle all rolled into one. You could have the good looking, rich, guy, that is intelligent and is funny as can be. Because those perfect people really do exist out there and you so are so good looking and ambitious that you are going to get you one of those.

This is EXACTLY what is wrong with America today. Television, women’s tabloids, and a false image of the perfect male………coupled with inflated egos and delusions of grandeur have fueled a search for the perfect male because the females are already so perfect, obviously. I guess no one on here has been in a real relationship. Because ego-maniacs don’t have long lasting relationships, because they can never be satisfied.

I joined thinking people out here were looking to date, because, like me, they worked 60 hours a week, and they just don’t have the time to get out like they used to. Boy, I was wrong, dead wrong. Instead, we have consumerism at its lowest. People browse, they nit-pick, until they have eliminated almost all possible choices. Then they find their stud, that closest thing to their false image of the alpha male and they get screwed or blown off and cry and say what an a-hole he was. Boo-Hoo.

This will all be over soon, as my membership will run out. No worries, It is my fault for thinking that a real person would use this. Most real people just live their lives and let love happen however it happens. Kudos to the girls that I have seen that have just cancelled their memberships and gotten off here.

It is like getting on heroin. You get hooked, you feel good browsing through these photos of beautiful women, who ALL have a sense of humor, love to travel, who love the arts, and who love sports, blah, blah, blah………What I am finding is really all they love is themselves and are not capable of making a rational decision in forming a relationship because they are so consumed with what THEY want, want THEY expect, and that they won’t give the “average” guy a chance. When I say average guy, I am saying someone who works for a living, someone who has a good set of values, some type of humor, and some idea of what their idea of a good time is.

Love has no face, no name, it can’t be bought, it can’t be sold, and it cannot be found. It just happens. This site can’t sell you the train ticket to find your mate. I don’t even think it can put you on the right course.

I have already met some great women, beautiful, talented, and guess what. I didn’t find them on here. What I did find on here for the few dates I went on were ego-maniacs.