True to form.after .I sent an email the other day stating that I wished to terminate my membership..I received a solicitation from eharmony asking me to reconsider THEN additional note saying that perhaps if I posted more photos that would meann I was "invested" in the process and I'd get more matches. HAHAHAHA. How typical...placing the "blame" on me! What a ripoff. I had one phone call from a "match" who sadly is a psychiatrist..who spent one hour talking non-stop... I even put the phone down and continued reading a book then picked up the phone a few minutes later and he was still talking...not even pausing for a moment. I would love to know eharmony's actual process of matching. How exactly is it done????