If I could give eharmony a -10 I would. 29 levels of compatability..give me a freaking break. What planet of compatibility are these qualities derived from? Based on the matches I've encountered and subsequently closed..I cannot imagine why or how these matches were conjured up. I've encountered far too many unstable people on this site. (not that eharmony has the monopoly on this!!). Basic politeness seems to have flown out the window. Common courtesy is not even there. I have terminated my membership (yipee) and will NOT make this same mistake again. I am fed up with ego-centric immature men! (again I am sure that there is a fair share of immature women but I've been communicating with the male variety!).