I had to post this as extra info for those who are trying this service.A few months ago I posted my experience which was one that I would not have wished on my worst enemy.I met someone who was an attorney and had ADD who talked too much and insulted the people in the restaurant we went too.To make it worse he called me on a whim from out of state to travel to see me without warning and then this happend.Ok so of course I dropped my membership then and there cause basically this jerk was a nutjob and long story short a fraud he was NEVER looking for a longterm relationship anyway.I complained majorly to Eharmony about this and told them to never ever send me an email. Low and behold about 3-4 months later I get this email saying to sign in and check my MATCHES???? WHAT????? I sign in and see they had me on the site as a supposed active member still seeking.One poor guy not even aware closed my match saying "We're just too different from different backgrounds".Well to me I think that's a bunch of crap anyway.But who am I to judge.So when I see this I write the longest email to Eharmony stating if they ever do this again a complaint will be filed with the FTC and the Attorney General's office.Haven't heard anything since.The point I'm making is that this service is junk and in my case I was cancelled and then recycled without my permission or knowledge.What a rip off,everytime I see the commercial I roll my eyes. Hope this was helpful to those out there considering this site. Long story short my personal life is much better now.