Been a member for 1 year now...200 matches...made it to open communication with JUST TWO MATCHES...The first one sent me a message to start open communication and then I never heard from her again, and the other I actually met on a date, realized there was no chemistry and that was it. The communication process is TOO SLOW and too many people just disappear. In one year I could only communicate with TWO MATCHES! 'Nuff said.