eHarmony is fraudulent!!!! I found this out after my 3 mo membership expired when I continued to get matches. When I was a paying member I suspected that many of my matches were ones with expired memberships so I called customer service on a couple of occasions to confirm this. They assured me both times that they were all paying members. Obviously they were lying because they are matching me, a non-paying member by their records, with gullible, vulnerable, fragile ego paying members as was I in the recent past. Like a previous poster said, "their matching with members who have expired subscriptions is eharmony's dirtiest little secret". Please join me in telling all consumer sites and even the BBB about their fraudulent practices.

Try Match.com---at least you can see when the person last logged in.