lol, have you ever noticed how men and women say their own gender has the roughest time on these dating sites? I've read about every spin to this claim of who it's worse for. But the thing is, it's impossible to tell with eHarmony because of it's matching system. I believe these people had a hard time with the site, but I don't think their difficulty is related to their gender.

The problem with eHarmony is how they pick and distribute matches to their members. The fact that a member has only a handfull of matches to start is a BIG RED FLAG. Then members being matched with other members who live a thousand milies from each other is another one of eHarmony's Red Flags. The matching system is poor at best and they only use these impossible matches because they don't have anyone to match with Joe/Jane Doe.

The reality is the site's just too hard to use and too expensive for people who lead normal lives. Many people just don't want to sit behind their computer and sift through their matches at eHarmony... It's not their idea of fun.

I guess it's good! Maybe I'll use """The Secret""" and create a more successful system. Then I'll sell it to Google. What I'm saying is there's money to be made in this online dating industry. It's appearent when you look at the best sites on the net and see how successful they are when it comes to matching members.