Yes, if there were a rating with negative stars, I would use it. Eharmony should really shorten its name simply to Eharm. The clowns that are out there to waste your time leave the last laugh on you...and don't forget that you paid admission. There are better ways to use your time. Join a club. Your money will be better invested. Eharm is all about generating revenue, not helping you. Somehow Eharm seemed more elusive than other online dating sites. I do NOT recommend joining.