First of all, There are no active profiles on Friend Finder. I wouldn't waste any time on that site. The Friend Finder Group is probably just using Friendfinder.com as a front to make it's company appear somewhat normal, and to funnel people to it's popular adultfriendfinder.com site.

If you're going to have any luck finding a date on the net, adultfriendfinder is as good of a place as any because of it's size. The success you have on this site will vary due to what you look like and what you're looking for. A woman will be able to find a guy to meet her within minutes of her profile approval, and the same thing goes for men seeking men. Basically, if you're looking for something that puts you in demand, you can get it on adultfriendfinder.

Let's take my ex-wife for an example, as she was on adultfrinedfinder for 3 months. Within 2 weeks of her being on that site, she was having sex with 2 married men in her town. After a while she became bored with them, and took up another search on the site. This time she was looking for bi-men because she was looking for a 3some. She was able to find guys who were interested, but she wasn't able to get guys meet for the 3some.

When I tried the site I accidently listed myself as a man seeking men. My inbox was flooded with emails from men who wanted to meet me. In some cases these guys offered to get a motel room and they gave me their phone #, I had emails from local couples who wanted a 3some, and I had a couple of emails from single women who were interested in me because they thought I was bisexual. About a week later, I proofread my profile and found that I was listed as seeking to have sex with anyone. I quickly changed my intrest requirements on that site. After that, I quit getting emails from anyone.

For the next 3 weeks, I managed to have email exchanges with a few college-aged girls who weren't too attractive. They were able to find guys on that site, but they put their efforts into going after the more attractive guys. I ended up not meeting with them due to my lack of interest in them, and I guess the same thing went for the other guys who they'd respond to. These girls are just like the princess types on match.com, the sight of steak and shrimp compels them to skip past the hamburger and fries.

Anyone's success on this site depends on what they look like and what they're looking for on that site. If you're in demand by the group that seeks you, you'll enjoy a lot of success on that site.