Watch out! This service is no better than any other. But unlike Match.com, you don't know when your matches are online, or how active they have been online recently. This means that you can be dating someone who feigns loyalty, but is actually still very much on the prowl. So many men are simply fishing. More is never enough. One man I dated for more than a month told me he was no longer active online, because he was so content to have found me. That I believed that he was serious was my poor judgement. He only wanted to bed me. Later I learned that I also have female friends on Eharmony; we have learned alot by comparing notes. We were able to fish out more lies and misrepresentations. Dater beware!!