I first joined EH after being disappointed on Match.com. I found most of the men on Match were just looking to have fun and did not take it seriously. I was only on EH for a few days and hit it off with the first guy I met. He was totally my type and we instantly clicked. I decided to cancel all of my online memberships. (I even had my 1 mo membership with EH refunded since I canceled within a week.) We broke up after 10 weeks when I realized he didn't care as much about the relationship as I did. I renewed my membership soon after ,thinking I'd meet someone else just as fast. It's only been a week this time but am getting a little discouraged. Most of the matches aren't my type. Also, The "closing out" process feels a little "volatile". I usually say that I "met someone" when I close. However, I find some of the guys seem to get some sort of satisfaction from giving "I'd rather not say" as a reason for closing although we never had ANY communication! BTW-You ARE able to choose your settings as far as choosing what area you want your matches to be from.( In addition to other things.) I can tell other people writing these reviews aren't aware of that.