Obviously there are plenty of complaints about eHarmony, and I'd have to agree with some of them. But I'd like to attempt to offer some encouraging words to all the skeptics...since I used to be one. I'm 30 years old. I tried eHarmony on several different occasions (during the past couple of years), usually for a few months at a time. I went on a good number of dates, but I rarely went out with the same person more than once. The women I did go out with were very nice, but it just "wasn't there" for one reason or another. I had sworn off of eHarmony altogether, but then I decided to give it one more try. And I'm really glad I did. I went on a date with this one girl and I knew almost instantly that she was the one for me. It's hard to say that without sounding like one of the cheesy eHarmony commercials, but it's the truth. I have never felt so comfortable so quickly around someone as I am with this woman. Now, I don't know how much credit I give the whole "29 dimensions" theory. But I do think there is some validity to eHarmony's matching process. I say that because I never went a date and thought afterwards, "How in the hell did I get matched up with her!?!" Granted, I had to go on a lot of dates until I found the right person, but I was matched up with a lot of decent people. I think the main thing is that you have to be extremely patient. The whole process, from creating the profile to answering your match's questions, can get to be a bit much sometimes. But I think too many people give up too quickly. I know I did. I've tried all the dating sites known to man. They all have their own crappy qualities. And eHarmony does have a few policies that I believe are total bullsh*t, but I think it's one of the best sites out there. So, if you're thinking about trying it out, just remember it might take some time (and money, of course). But it can and does work. Good luck!