My main negative critics to the site is the same as many others. Too expensive and not many matches after they give you like five per day at the beginning. I got several matches and after an experience I got just one week ago I just think the users of eHarmony, like in other sites- apparently Christian- are very far from being such, even though they say they are Christians. I signed again and I had a great match who I looked at her profile and it was so great, but it was even more great to see that she requested communication just before I even clicked "Back" at my Browser. Yes... it was great... until 5 days later. That same match who claimed to be a true Christian closed communication with me because she was pursing another relationship. So... then why the hell- sorry for the angry tone- does she contact me for? There must be a way the owners of the site that claim to have the safer way to avoid this. One a member communicates to other and they both agree on meeting, it is really disappointing to see that they are trying more than one person at the same time. I am glad this happened, though I was really sad and down that day I read the Closed message but... I'm glad... because it would have been much worse if she did that to me on real life. The users of eHarmony are not all great, and beware, I suggest you if you contact with someone and she or he does not reply in an appropriate time, consider closing it before you discard other members that may really be a good match waiting for the answers just to read a stupid "Closed" message after the wait. Thank God I did not get other great matches I could have discarded mistakenly for this wrong and false one.