I liked eHarmony. No I did not meet the man of my dreams, but I had some nice chats and meet a nice guy. There are not many people from Vermont on eHarm (or in Vermont for that matter) so I had to open my search for a larger area. I found Eharm's system of starting with simple questions fun and easy and much less intimidating then having to make the first move in essay form. I did leave the site after three months but that was because I was "over" the online thing.