I have to say I really like eHarmony.. I DID get a lot of really unattractive people as matches (superficial, I know, but there has to be some chemistry) and closed most of them. From several hundred matches, I went out with two women and am still VERY happily seeing one of them and I really think she's the one... We get along amazingly well, the chemistry and attraction are mind blowing and it's all really good... So for me, I think if you ARE going to do online dating, give eHarmony a chance...