I first tried to fill out the profile for Eharmony a couple of years ago and they actually rejected me. I was kind of surprised and I thought nothing about doing it again until recently. I went ahead and filled out a new profile and it was accepted. I had the profile up for about a week and I decide to take the plunge and pay the sixty dollars. I have been doing it for a couple of weeks and I have met one person so far. It has been going all right so far. I have given this site a three because internet dating will never be very good. The problem I have encountered is that you do have people who are non paying members. Eharmony at least does have far less nonpaying members than yahoo and match because the questinonaire does at least weed out a lot of people who are not interested. The air heads who fill out a lunch time profile because they are bored at work will not attempt to do this for eharmony because it takes so long compared to match or yahoo. I have called eharmony and they have given me an extra month free so you can wheel and deal with them. I have done match and yahoo before. Match has been horrible and I never have met anyone even though I would respond to like 50 or 60 ads. Yahoo actually used to be all right but has gotten worse with time and has become equivalent to match. With Yahoo I would meet a few people, but Yahoo does not put any work in updating the site and a lot of the ads are really bad.