I am an attractive, fit, 45-year old professional woman who lives in the Houston metro. I agree that eHarmony was a total waste of time and money. And speaking of money, it also took a phone call to cancel my subscription and get my refund. All of my matches (a whopping total of 3 men) lived way outside of the Houston area in some bo-punk town I'd never even heard of. They sent me one match that lived in Corpus which is a five hour drive. It was obvious from their pictures, my so called matches did not take care of themselves, which to me, is very important. I don't think this website matches people up in any meaningful way despite of their advertised 29 point personality criterion. The next week, I received another four matches that were also outside of the Houston area. All of these men either looked like Santa Claus, one of the members of ZZTop, or half werewolf. Sorry friends, but I'd rather go alone to the party than show up with someone like that. I am not a superficial person, but could never find chemistry with someone that doesn't take care of their physical appearance.