This site is a complete waste of time and money.

There's no way to search for matches you may be interested in. Not everyone wants someone with their exact personality traits. After 3 years of using this off and on, I can say I've had a grand total of about 3 different women I was able to meet in person. The vast majority don't pay for the service, so they can't respond. The site will not tell you that your 15 matches are not users, tricking you into forking over your money and then getting zilch responses when trying to contact the matches. And while I can't blame the site, the women I've met are extremely shy and barely talk in person. I can see why they're using this website.

The site also suffers seriously from crashing and slowness. Routinely, it doesn't even work at night or "all member pictures are unavailable" suddenly appears for the duration of the evening. I don't know where all their money is going but it's not into hardware that runs the website.

Use your $60/month to go have a nice dinner, rent some videos, go spend a day at Disney. You'll get more value of of that stuff than this waste of time. Also, try meetup.com. It's free, for the most part, and will help you find social groups with similar interests. I'd give that site 5 stars even though it's not really a dating or personals website. It's more like real life. Meet some folks. Have some fun. And just get to know people.