I have to agree with the post below me. She knows what she is talking about. I am over 40 with my child almost grown and do not want to date a man who is still raising small children. I have already raised mine without his help, so why shoud I help him? And PICKY, you better believe it. The 55 year old man with 3 children under 10, usually rowdy boys, wants to date a woman in her 20's?? Most 20 year old women are not interested in taking on a bunch of childen because they want to have their own and don't want a husband whose paycheck goes to the ex and his kids with her. The women his age don't want to have to deal with kids and planning around them. Face it men, you had your fun in your 20's and 30's and waiting to marry and have children in your 40's, now your are divorced with children and expect the woman who had kids younger and is now enjoying her free years to help you raise yours. You need to wait till the kids are grown, you will probably be 65 or over by then, to find a woman, and not one is her 40's at that time. Yahoo seems to have a overload of this kind of man.