GGGRRRRHHHH. I have never been so disappointed and frustrated than I have in the past two years. I've tried Yahoo Personals and Match. Both are a joke. WHERE ARE THE REAL MEN IN THIS WORLD BECAUSE THEY AREN'T ON THESE DATING WEBSITES! I have never in my life read profiles that are so sugar coated and fake and met so many spinless men in my life. I'm 48 years old and have been divorced for four years now. My conversations with my ex are more stimulating than the dates I have been on. The number one problem with the men on these sites is they are all going through what I call "male menopause". They want someone who is 5 to 10 years younger than them. And what is with these 55 year old coots who have 3 children all under the age of 10? What the heck were they doing when I was having my kids in my late 20's? And the first thing they say in their profiles is "I'm really busy with my children but want to start dating....." Okay - woman my age don't want to date and babysit at the same time. We want to D A T E and not between soccer, baseball and football games. We have raised our kiddies and want to start having a life without having to raise another litter of someone elses kids. Dudes - wake up and smell the roses. You started too late. On top of that, they then think they can get someone who is 10 years younger than them! Oh my god - have they looked in the mirror?!?!? Now I'm not a runway model and I know at my age you do have to lower your standards in the "looks" area. But my experience is they still want the runway model (or maybe the permanent babysitter for all those little ones). God bless the young ladies who jump into that scenario. I'm going out with the girlfriends and having fun. And while I'm out having fun, the old Daddies can sit at home and watch Cartoon Network while searching the Internet for Bambi.