I went into e-harmony with an open mind. Tried match and yahoo last year and figured it was worth a shot. Kind of liked the idea of the personality matching concept.

In actuality, it was worse than the others. First, you cannot search for matches. Some little elf does that for you. Granted, the anonymity is nice, as John Q Public and the whole internet cannot see you. But at the same time, you are spoon fed an odd assortment of matches. Many men will be out of your geographic area. And the ones that are close have no photo. Very frustrating.

Like many women, I prefer the safety of online dating. Just not this site.