Are these men who are pissed about getting matches with women 40+ for real? Do they honestly think intelligent women are desperate to get married these days? Have they not heard the studies showing that women are staying single by choice well into their 40s? They no longer need men for money since they have careers and many choose to have children on their own (well into their 40s - it's not unusual these days).

I am over 40 and never cared for the men who wanted women 10+ years younger. They tend to be domineering and trying to recapture something they feel they have lost.

I signed up for eharmony not because I never meet men who are attracted to me (because I do) but because I thought it might be a way to meet some quality men. And I have. The whole process is not stimulating enough for me to pay to continue once my current paid time is done though. Women have to weed through a ton of freaks. It becomes too draining.