I tried Lavalife a few years back. It was worthless like the rest of them. This review is for the benefit of those who recently took up internet dating. Years back, in the early days of the internet, it wasn't nearly as bad. Since about 2002 it has been crashing in a big way. Yes, Aaron, those who use it today are mainly losers. It was not so true in years past, but things are getting worse as time goes on. Most other people went on to better things and if you MUST use online dating, at least use a free service like Plenty of Fish. Before every Bubba and Bubbette got a computer, things were different. Now things have slid down to the lowest common denominator, so don't bother to pay for the service.