I loved meeting guys this way because I could write back and forth a few times if I was interested. It was up to me if I wanted to give them my phone number, or they could give me their number if they wanted to. I could screen them out if they didn't put a picture in or if I didn't like what I saw. It was so much easier than hoping to meet someone in my everyday life that had something in common with me and wasn't married. Because the company protects your privacy, nobody goes directly to your personal email. They have to go through yahoo personals to get to you. It was a comfortable way to meet people because I felt that the company safeguarded me against undesirables. I liked being able to be picky about certain values that mean a lot to me. I only chose Christians because that's important to me, but you had all kinds of options to choose from which made it nice. I am so attracted to the guy I met. I don't know if it will be a lifetime or a moment that we share together in this time frame called life, but I see the possibilities of spending my life with him.