Where to start. That matched on "29 different levels of compatibility" stuff is junk. Unless somehow I am some kind of con-artist!

I started e-Harmony in the beginning of 04. Out of maybe 200 matches I went on three dates. First was a guy non-commital to any job. Next was a snob who chose me for my grammar. Then came a "nice guy". I dated the nice guy for about two months, up until he asked to borrow $4,700 to pay off his first divorce!

Lastly, when I was just about frustrated, I met what I thought was Mr. Right. I waited 35 years, this had to be the one.... it's a scientific match! Mr. Right told me he had minimal debt, but declined a pre-nup (as I owned my own home). Needless to say, we married, I took a second mortage to pay off most of his 53K debt. One year later, after I learned he drained the checking account, and ran up his credit card, he walks out. Oh, but wait, he's not done, he's got a lawyer and is trying to get the original money I placed down on the house (which I was forced to sell).

Don't believe the "campatibility", even if you are compatable, get a background check, get a credit report and tread carefully. I will never do it again. This site promoted a false sense of security. Talk to any divorce attoney about the number of cases they are handling from such sites, it's astronomical. Best of luck!