Give eHarmony credit for warning you about people who lie. They even give a list of warning signs. They were better than other sites I've tried. They were a lot better than blind dates set up for me by friends, and a cousin. However. In my one month subscription, I was sent roughly 40-50 matches. All were within my 30 mile radius. My 1st date was with a man who was incredibly wonderful. Just ask him. At least the shrimp was worth the trip to the restaurant. It's not the sites' fault that he was completely full of it. My 2nd, and final, date will be tomorrow with a man who may work out. Or not. That's up to us. Lots of my matches never answered, or went through a phase or two & I never heard from them. After a week, I just closed the matches. No big deal. I think my problem with this site is the same problems with all computer dating, personals, or introduction companies. Too much time, effort, expense, all focused only on relationships. I'm going to use the money instead to take classes in all of those things that I've always wanted to learn, and maybe along the way I'll meet someone with common interests. And I did not receive a sudden deluge of matches right before my subscription was up.